My time working with Trevor has helped me effectively manage and deeply understand what I am responsible for, and what I am not. This has been the most incredible transformation I have experienced during my time working with him and the IFS method.
- N. K.
I can confidently say that I have made significant progress in managing my anger, and much of that progress is thanks to your guidance. The practical tools and strategies you shared have already made a positive impact on my daily life, both personally and professionally.
- B. L.
Trevor's compassion and curiosity create palpable safety that allows for deep and intensely meaningful growth. His capacity to hold a loving and fiercely honest space is incredibly unique and in service to awakening greater awareness within himself and others.
- L. B.
For years I had been pushing myself to the edge. I was a typical high achiever who wouldn’t settle for anything. There were no room for errors. There were no boundaries. Only the toughest would strive in the corporate world I was living. My body and mind were giving sings about this way of living, but I ignored them for years.
Until it made me fully stop in 2020. I got burned out, overwhelmed and bedridden for 3 months. I was suffering from a massive amount of debilitating anxiety and relationship anxiety that would not let me eat, sleep or even go to a store without a panic attack. I was a mess.
I suffered in silence, until I almost gave up.
I reached out for help and was described with different kinds of medicine and got accepted to Cognitive Behavioural Therapy. I obediently took my medicine and saw a therapist weekly. Still, I saw no improvement after 2 years. I started to get tired.
Then I bumped into IFS and got curious. Something in this modality really resonated with me and I had to learn more. Shortly after I met Trevor who introduced me to the world of IFS and parts work. After years of shutting down my feelings and thoughts I got curious and listened what my parts had to say. Anxiety started to loosen its grip one session at a time. I have been doing parts work and coaching with Trevor for almost a year now.
One week ago, I was cleaning my medicine cabinet and suddenly realized how far I’ve come. I used to take 7 different kinds of medicine daily.
Now almost a year after that amount has reduced to half of a pill of the lowest dose of one antidepressant. And that's it. I feel pure joy, hope and gratitude about that. My journey continues (as if it would ever end) and I think my story works as a great reminder of the impact that IFS and an amazing coach can do. We are always moving forward in a way, we might just not realize or see it daily.
- Nina